There’s nothing worse than when you’ve come up with a brilliant idea or plan for your business or you’re wanting to change on a personal level and put yourself out there.
BUT as soon as you start thinking about your new plans or ideas and you start to get excited, you can see yourself there, you dream of great things to come, instantly your brain kicks in, it has other ideas and instantly downloads a flurry of negativity and squashes them!
In an INSTANT you go from a state of euphoria to a state of panic!
You instantly feel panicky, your heart starts racing, you breakout into a sweat, and you’re paralysed with fear.
Suddenly it doesn’t feel like a great idea anymore and you start back peddling.
“Who do I think I am wanting to do this?” “The market is saturated with the same idea, who am I to think it will work for me?” “Nobody’s going to be interested in that?” “What if it goes wrong and I look like a fool?” “What if it does succeed and I can’t cope with the pressure?”
That feel good factor has just gone out of the window!
Instead of feeling ecstatic now you feel utterly deflated and it’s starting to feel like it’s no longer a great idea and you decide to ‘shelve it’ then you notice your body and mind coming down from ‘high alert’ to feeling relaxed and comfortable again because the ‘DANGER’ has gone!
Unfortunately this isn’t the way to live!
We are supposed to face challenges, we’re supposed to be curious, to try something new, to explore, develop and grow.
If this resonates with you and as you read this you recognise a old familiar pattern of behaviour playing out in your life that you wish to change.
Contact/DM me for a FREE Discovery Call so we can go over what is frustrating you and keeping you stuck.
You don’t need to live like this anymore. Things can change. Just reach out and let me help you.
Love always.
Julia
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